A SECOND OPINION
- By loramarie03
- 21 September, 2012
- 21 Comments
So earlier this week (or was it last?) I mentioned that I was going back to the doctor to see what’s up with my angry gut. Remember back in February, I went to the doctor, got frustrated, and self-diagnosed myself with gluten sensitivity. It sounded like a good idea and for the first few weeks, it really worked.
And then the symptoms returned. But then some gluten would slip into my diet, and it seemed much worse. Finally, I knew I had to get a second opinion.
(The reason it took me so long is I hate doctors. Absolutely hate. As was the case in February, I feel like many doctors don’t do due diligence are have adapted to today’s society where they are so ready to prescribe the latest med to get rid of your symptoms, without treating the problem.)
I found a doctor that had good ratings online. Worth a shot.
And I must say, he is quite amazing! He actually LISTENED to what I said. He asked me questions and tried to get to the bottom of the problem. Of course, he was very disappointed in me for a) waiting a year to take care of this and b) using the internet to diagnose myself (which he blamed on my generation, sooo technically I can’t help it — haha)… so I got a stern talking to about that.
He came up with a treatment plan, which is exactly what I thought should happen when you visit a GI doctor. Not someone telling you you need every GI test under the sun and then you can talk. So, my diet has been exact opposite of what my body needs.
You know all the fruit and veggies that I eat, the lack of carbs? Well, that has to change. My diet needs to be focused on protein and starches, with a small amount of fruit, veggies and dairy thrown in. Cheese on a hamburger? OK. Big bowl of ice cream? Not OK. There are some other things I need to do, but he is confident that if I follow his plan for the next two weeks, I will be in pretty good shape.
Considering we’ll be in Jamaica in three weeks, I like his optimism.
So, lessons learned:
- Do not use the internet to diagnose your symptoms.
- Go to a doctor if things don’t seem right… there are some really good doctors out there.
- What’s healthy for you might be healthy for someone else.
I think that last one is really hard in today’s society because we are constantly seeing that Mary lost 20 pounds with Weight Watchers! And Bill lost 15 pounds with Atkins! And Susan went on South Beach and lost 25 pounds! But when we try these magic cures ourselves, the results are never quite right. It’s because everyone’s body is different and reacts to everything in a different way. So while eating a plate full of salad might be good for you, it’s not necessarily good for someone else. Just something to keep in mind as we all try to live a little healthier. (However, nobody ever said that eating fast food, chips and cupcakes full-time was healthy for anyone. I think that remains true.)
So here we go… to a healthy end of 2012 and an end to this annoying problem!









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Great advice! And I'm glad you decided on another opinion!!! Hope things rapidly improve!! Spa love!
Thanks, girl!!
Hopefully what the DR has suggested will work for you.
I hope this works for you, Lora!!
Me too!
Fingers crossed this new approach works for you!! So happy you found a doctor who you trust
Thank you!! It's so hard to find a good doctor so I'm very happy that I finally have someone good!!
Good luck! And I really like that you've pointed out that we're all different – fuel your body to your needs, and it will run efficiently. Pain and discomfort is the body's way of saying 'no, that's not ok'.
That's a good point, and it's good to remember it since sometimes we like to hide the pain — but it really means something is wrong.
Glad you're on track with getting back to feeling 100%.
Yeahhh me too!! Although I hope this diet can change after awhile otherwise life will be no fun without a lot of WI cheese!
Your last paragraph really resonates. I think the hardest part about getting healthy is how we listen and hope that what works for everyone else will work for us.
So glad you've got a plan to feeling better. Love this post…may be one of my favorites that you've written!
Thank you!! I agree it's the hardest — "one size fit all" doesn't work with healthy living.
i hope your new approach does the trick!! i have gluten, dairy and soy intolerances. i also can't eat a ton of big salads either. there are a lot of people who don't really understand that. it's why i try to never be judgemental about another person's diet and i'm also not big on putting additional dietary restrictions on my already limited menu!!
Yeah I think it's best for people just to mind their own diets… and exactly, why restrict more if you don't have to!
Kyle has GI issues too. We are hoping that our 30 day challenge will uncover which foods are causing him problems. So far it seems like dairy is the culprit. But if we can't figure it out, I might want your doctor's name if that's ok.
Yes! His name is Dr. Daniel Adler and he's located on 59th Street. Highly, highly recommend him.
I have gotten scolded from my physician for using the internet to diagnose myself too. I think that is too common with our generation. I am glad that you finally went for that 2nd opinion and I hope that the treatment plan is a success for you.
Yeah its really hard not to just use the internet. Especially when you find stuff that fits your symptoms!
Yay for finally finding a doctor that works. Hopefully his plan works for you too! So does this mean no more salads for breakfast?
Yep no more salads. I hope it's not a forever thing… but just one way to get everything straightened out. I love my salads!! Hahha.